For example, An article in Psychology Today (July 5, 2011) What the Wild Things Are by Samantha Smithstein reads, "The longer I work, the more unusual it is to find somebody who is just an alcoholic or even just a shoplifter...we see a lot of people who steal things for other people because they are trying to manage the impression of how others see them. This is manipulative but that's part of codependency-being seen as nice, generous, and financially affluent." I think so much of our perception of good and bad or success and failure is based on our society and not that easy to explain.
Today, the title I am working with is Uncle Ray, the story of a benevolent man and how he impacted the characters in the story.
Just wanted to mention that with Valentine's Day just a week away, there is an ad on the right side of this page for Smilebox. I don't usually mention the ads, but this one has a nice program for making your own valentines for free.